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Reddit poster criticizes sister-in-law’s ‘ridiculous’ baby names, angering rest of family

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An expectant mom shared some “baby name” drama on Reddit’s “Am I the A*****e” subreddit on November 8 — immediately garnering scores of strong comments from the community.

Explaining that she’s expecting a baby with her husband, the 27-year-old woman said her sister-in-law, 34, has four kids with a fifth baby on the way.

“She is the definition of a ‘crunchy’ mom,” she said of her sister-in-law, adding that her sister-in-law homeschools her children, is vegan, does not allow electronics in the home and has all-natural clothes and toys for her kids. 

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The Reddit poster also said that her sister-in-law “wanted her kids to have unique names and not basic names.”

She continued, “All her kids have ridiculous names.” She then listed them, with their phonetic pronunciations: “Baryleen” (pronounced Bryalin), “Falkin” (pronounced Falcon), “Rorai” (pronounced Rorie) and “Kelvin” (pronounced Calvin). 

A Reddit poster shared some personal family drama with others on social media. She revealed why she and her sister-in-law do not agree on baby names for their children — and today aren't speaking. 

A Reddit poster shared some personal family drama with others on social media. She revealed why she and her sister-in-law do not agree on baby names for their children — and today aren’t speaking. 
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“My sister-in-law asked me what my opinion was [of] her naming her next baby ‘Astra,’ ‘Inky’ or ‘Lore,’” she continued.

In contrast, the poster said she and her husband are planning to name their child — due in a few months — the more common “James.” That’s when the sister-in-law then went on “a rant” about how the poster’s baby is “going to have a basic name and not be memorable.”

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The Reddit poster pushed back. “I told her she was naming kids, not dogs, and [that] her kids are going to hate their names once they get older,” she wrote.

“She got really mad and began screaming at me that I was rude and kids’ names are more than just a name,” she said. “She stormed out of my house after this.”

“She asked your opinion — you delivered.”

She then shared in her post that her mother-in-law and brother-in-law had been calling her “all day” to say she was being “evil and rude” — and that she needed to apologize to her sister-in-law. 

“My husband agrees with me that someone needed to tell her she’s giving these kids ridiculous names,” the Reddit poster said. 

The two sisters-in-law (not shown) described on Reddit "clearly don’t respect each other," said New York psychologist Jaymie Albin of the baby-name drama shared on social media.

The two sisters-in-law (not shown) described on Reddit “clearly don’t respect each other,” said New York psychologist Jaymie Albin of the baby-name drama shared on social media.
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But then she added, “I feel bad, like maybe I should apologize. It wasn’t really my place to say anything.”

The expectant mom ended her post with these words: “I’m so sick of her mom-shaming me.”

A lack of respect 

The argument between the sisters-in-law says a lot more about their relationship than it does about baby naming, Dr. Jayme Albin, a psychologist in New York City, told Fox News Digital in an email.

The two women “clearly don’t respect each other,” Albin said. 

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The psychologist continued, “When someone asks you [for your] opinion, first consider the respect between the two of you. How deep is the bond? How long have you known each other and how well do you know each other? That should [factor] into how much and how deep you go in your response.”

Albin advised people to “read the room. Read the situation.”

The poster said she and her husband are planning to name their child — who is due in a few months — a much more common name than her sister-in-law is planning for her new baby.

The poster said she and her husband are planning to name their child — who is due in a few months — a much more common name than her sister-in-law is planning for her new baby.
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She added, “For example, if you and your sister-in-law don’t go very deep, then don’t get into deep conversations about how each [of you] should parent.”

When it comes to sensitive topics, Albin said it is helpful to ask the other person, “How far do you want me to go?”

She said, “I always recommend caution — you could always give more later — and you can also ask, ‘Do you want me to continue?’”

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The “baby name shame” was a hot topic in the subreddit, quickly garnering 1,500 comments in under 24 hours. One Reddit user bluntly commented about the women’s disagreement, “She asked your opinion — you delivered.”

Another person wrote, “My sister picks ‘semi-out there’ names. But she’s never once asked my opinion or criticized my kids’ names.”

“I told her she was naming kids, not dogs, and her kids are going to hate their names once they get older.”

The commenter continued, “Some people love their basic, common names. You cannot tell ahead of time. Do your best and roll with it … and don’t ask for input if you’re not prepared for a negative response.”

Many people on Reddit shared their own experiences with unique names.

The topic about what to name children quickly gained traction on Reddit, with 1,500 comments showing up in less than 24 hours. Some people related their own childhood name dramas.

The topic about what to name children quickly gained traction on Reddit, with 1,500 comments showing up in less than 24 hours. Some people related their own childhood name dramas.
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One commenter wrote, “My brother’s middle name is ‘Brinn,’ and my dad’s middle name is ‘Brian.’ My brother’s second-grade teacher insisted to my brother that his middle name was ‘Brian’ and he was spelling his own middle name wrong.” 

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The commenter added, “She went so far as to call my dad about it … Woo, boy, did he give her a piece of his mind.”

Another person wrote, “I feel this on such a deep level, LOL! My last name is only five letters, but there’s a vowel only at the very end.”

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The commenter added, “Every time I have to give my last name, I spell it out and [people] still question it. Then I get the dreaded, ‘Would you like to buy a vowel’ joke … Ugh.”

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On this day in history, June 7, 1942, Battle of Midway ends in decisive US victory

On this day in history, June 7, 1942, the Battle of Midway — regarded as one of the most decisive U.S. victories in its war against Japan — came to an end.  

The Battle of Midway was an Allied naval victory and a major turning point in World War II. 

The battle was fought between Japanese and American carrier forces near the Midway Atoll, a territory of the United States in the central Pacific, from June 4-7, 1942.

On June 4, 1942, the Battle of Midway began. 

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Midway Island is a fairly isolated atoll, so named because it is midway between North America and Asia in the North Pacific Ocean, according to National Geographic.

Midway’s importance grew for commercial and military planners, says the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration (NOAA). 

Battle of Midway

In this June 4, 1942, file photo provided by the U.S. Navy, the USS Astoria (CA-34) steams by USS Yorktown (CV-5), shortly after the carrier had been hit by three Japanese bombs in the Battle of Midway.  (William G. Roy/U.S. Navy via AP, File)

In the 1930s, Midway became a stopover for Pan American Airways’ “flying clippers” — seaplanes crossing the ocean on their five-day transpacific passage, the same source indicates.

Midway was an incredibly strategic location, multiple sources say. 

“The Imperial Japanese Navy planned to use it to secure their sphere of influence in the Pacific theater of the war,” according to National Geographic. 

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“The Japanese had not lost a naval battle in more than 50 years, and had nearly destroyed the American fleet just six months earlier in a surprise attack on Pearl Harbor, Hawaii.” 

The American success at Midway was a major victory over the Imperial Japanese Navy. 

Pearl Harbor is about 1,300 miles east of Midway, says the same source.

In preparation, American military and intelligence forces worked together to defeat the Japanese. 

Battle of Midway Island

The Battle of Midway Island, which resulted in a major victory for the U.S. fleet. The USS aircraft carrier ‘Yorktown’ received a direct hit from a Japanese plane, which got through despite the heavy barrage put up by American destroyers.  (Keystone/Getty Images)

Code breakers were able to decipher Japanese naval code, allowing American leaders to anticipate Japanese maneuvers, notes National Geographic. 

Because of this, the U.S. Navy was then able to launch a surprise attack on the larger Japanese fleet in the area and the Battle of Midway turned the tide of the war, says the same source. 

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The American success at Midway was a major victory over the Imperial Japanese Navy as all four Japanese carriers — Akagi, Hiryu, Kaga and Soryu — had participated in the attack on Pearl Harbor, says the National WWII Museum.

The Battle of Midway is often referred to as the turning point of the war in the Pacific.

“Sinking those Japanese carriers represented a resounding defeat over the enemy fleet which had wrought such destruction only six months before,” the same source says.

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The Imperial Japanese Navy would not be capable of overcoming the loss of four carriers and over 100 trained pilots — and with the loss at Midway, the Japanese offensive in the Pacific was overturned and the United States began offensive action in the Pacific, says the National WWII Museum.

The Battle of Midway is widely considered the most decisive U.S. victory of that period.

It is often referred to as the turning point of the war in the Pacific.

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Midway Atoll has since been designated as a National Memorial to the Battle of Midway, says the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration.

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Invisible AI’s ‘intelligent agent’ cameras can see what autoworkers and machines are doing wrong

Tesla CEO Elon Musk often refers to the automobile factory as “the machine that builds the machine,” but there are plenty of human workers involved in even the most highly automated plants.

They remain a key part of the exceedingly complex process that is automobile assembly but need to operate as efficiently as their mechanical counterparts to keep cars and trucks coming off the line with a combination of quality and speed.

Weeding out issues and making sure everything is running smoothly has traditionally meant sending quality control personnel up and down the lines to get eyes on the action. But now there’s a way to automate that job with better results than ever before.

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Palo Alto-based Invisible AI was founded by veterans of the autonomous car industry who saw an alternative for the artificial intelligence-driven machine vision technology they were working on that could come to market long before the mass acceptance of self-driving cars.

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Invisible AI’s cameras have two terabytes of storage, enough to capture two months of data. (Invisible AI)

The company designed a network of cameras that can monitor an assembly line in real time and spot even the smallest things going wrong.

“Productivity, safety and quality are always top of mind in manufacturing, especially auto,” Invisible AI CEO Eric Danzinger told Fox News Digital.

The self-contained units are equipped with stereoscopic vision and onboard processing that allows them to be easily set up in a factory without having to tap into the facility’s own networks.

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The cameras use stereoscopic vision that can monitor how workers are moving. (Invisible AI)

“Our AI is not just about watching one workstation but about getting that view across the line about where you’re hitting production bottlenecks, where you’re seeing deviations from how the work is supposed to be done and where you’re seeing issues like bad reaches that can cause physical issues for your workers,” Danzinger said.

The cameras don’t need to be programmed with the assembly process. They only have to scan a single, correct cycle, and then the system can determine if anything deviates from it later.

“Our AI system analyzes the video, from raw pixels, to understand the pattern of work that’s happening and then compares those patterns so we can tell if someone is following a standard,” Danzinger explained. “All of that is being done by an intelligent agent in the cameras so a person doesn’t have to.

“If you have 100 cameras on one section of an assembly, you are actually seeing in 3D the living, breathing line.”

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The system can tell if a worker’s movements are deviating from the ideal process. (Invisible AI)

Pricing varies by application, but Danzinger said the cost is far less than bringing in a consulting team or trying to accomplish the same work manually, which really can’t be done given the scope of what the system is capable of. 

Since they’re self-contained, installing all the cameras can be done in a couple of days between shifts.

“Our system has become the place you can go to help frontline employees understand the work being done,” Danzinger said.

“There are a million things happening. People are sick, bad parts are coming from suppliers, machines are broken down. … To be able to know what’s going on, what’s the most crucial component to fix, how do I meet my numbers? That’s the most important thing.”

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Invisible AI has collected a roster of a dozen automotive parts suppliers and four original equipment manufactures as clients, including Toyota, which uses the system at a factory in Indiana.

Toyota declined to provide comment for this report, but Senior Engineer Jihad Abdul-Rahim said when the project was announced last year that “Invisible AI is not only helping us find opportunities for improvement on the assembly lines, but we’re also constantly finding new use cases for their technology, such as ergonomics analysis to proactively prevent injuries.”

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Users can use an app to get an overview or check the status at a specific point in the assembly process. (Invisible AI)

Danzinger said details about its other customers and how they are using the system is confidential and that Invisible AI can’t provide details on their behalf.

As far as privacy is concerned, the system doesn’t have facial recognition technology, and it can blur faces captured on video. But the point of it is to offer direct feedback, so it is not an entirely anonymized analytical tool.

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“Most of what we see is helping workers have a voice and raise their hand to say, ‘This is broken. We need help fixing it,’ and actually getting a response,” Danzinger said.

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D-Day 79 years later: How FDR’s powerful prayer united Americans

President Franklin D. Roosevelt trumpeted America’s foundation of faith to inspire the nation in its finest hour: D-Day, June 6, 1944. 

“Almighty God: Our sons, pride of our nation, this day have set upon a mighty endeavor, a struggle to preserve our republic, our religion and our civilization, and to set free a suffering humanity,” FDR said resolutely on D-Day, leading a prayer that crackled from radios coast to coast and to service members and occupied nations around the globe.

Some Americans believe that his stirring call to spiritual arms can unite the nation once again and pay tribute to the sacrifice and commitment of our military and veterans.

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“FDR’s prayer seemed to bring everybody together,” said Chris Long of Akron, Ohio, leader of the D-Day Prayer Project, which installed the prayer permanently at the National World War II Memorial in Washington, D.C. in 2022. “We hope it can speak to generations to come.”

Head of the Christian Alliance of America, Long launched the effort in 2011 to get the rousing text of Roosevelt’s prayer, all 525 words of it, engraved in perpetuity at the national memorial. 

FDR, 32nd president of the U.S.

Franklin D. Roosevelt, the 32nd president of the U.S., called for the spiritual mobilization of the American people on June 6, 1944. 

The WWII Memorial Prayer Act, sponsored by Sen. Rob Portman, R-Ohio and Rep. Bill Johnson, R-Ohio, was passed unanimously by the Senate in 2014 and enjoyed overwhelming bipartisan support in the House two weeks later. 

President Obama signed the bill into law on June 30, 2014, but no tax dollars were allotted to the project. 

The permanent memorial features brass plates engraved with the prayer mounted on a granite base. 

Long led a group in 2019, on the 75th anniversary of D-Day, that installed a temporary tablet listing the text of the prayer as a “placeholder,” he said, for the future permanent installment within the National World War II Memorial’s Circle of Remembrance.

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Funding for the permanent installment has come in fits and starts from private sources and citizens, most notably a $2 million donation by the Lilly Endowment Inc., said Friends of the National World War II Memorial executive director Holly Rotondi. 

She called the effort “a real labor of love.” 

An artist’s rendering is shown before its opening of the FDR prayer tribute at the National World War II Memorial in Washington, D.C. (Friends of the National World War II Memorial/Oehme van Sweden & Associates)

The memorial features brass plates engraved with the prayer mounted on a granite base. 

Spiritual mobilization of Americans

Roosevelt called for the spiritual mobilization of the American people as the massive D-Day invasion force stormed by air and sea into Normandy, France. 

The U.S. and the Allies landed 160,000 troops in France on the first day alone. The effort was supported by tens thousands of other members of the multinational armed forces who manned warships and aircraft.

The young lives of every soldier, sailor and airman hung upon the outcome of the invasion. 

The nation awoke on June 6, 1944, to learn that its heroic youth crawled from the sea and fell from the sky overnight in an effort to wrest an enslaved Europe from Hitler’s clutches. 

Americans knew that the young lives of every soldier, sailor and airman, along with the fate of the free world, hung upon the outcome of the invasion. 

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Reinforcements disembark from a landing barge in Normandy during the Allied Invasion of France on D-Day. (Hulton Archive/Getty Images)

Roosevelt steeled frightened mothers and fathers, and a worried but determined nation, for the shocking human cost to come. 

“Men’s souls will be shaken with the violences of war,” the president said soberly.

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“Some will never return,” he said. “Embrace these, Father, and receive them, Thy heroic servants, into Thy kingdom … I ask that our people devote themselves into a continuance of prayer … And, O Lord, give us faith. Give us faith in Thee; faith in our sons; faith in each other; faith in our united crusade.”

“Men’s souls will be shaken with the violences of war.” — FDR 

More than 4,400 Americans were killed on D-Day alone, according to figures from the National D-Day Memorial in Bedford, Virginia. 

By the time the battle for Normandy was won in August 1944, as many as 29,000 American troops were dead and more than 100,000 were wounded or missing in action. 

The president wrote the prayer himself, with the help of his daughter Anna and her husband John Boettiger, according to the Franklin Delano Roosevelt Presidential Library and Museum in Hyde Park, New York.

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U.S. assault troops are seen landing on Omaha Beach during the invasion of Normandy on June 6, 1944. (Keystone/Getty Images)

FDR could be heard shuffling the pages as he delivered the address on June 6. 

An estimated 100 million people worldwide heard Roosevelt’s plea over the airwaves, said Long of the D-Day Prayer Project, including many of those living in fear in Nazi-occupied Europe.

‘Friends and salvation’

“The best part about the invasion is that I have the feeling that friends are on the way,” young Anne Frank wrote hopefully in her diary on June 6, while secreted away amid a “huge commotion in The Annex” of an Amsterdam apartment, as BBC news of the landings crackled over the radio. 

“The thought of friends and salvation mean everything to us!” 

Anne Frank, famed for her Holocaust diary

“I have the feeling that friends are on the way,” Anne Frank wrote on June 6, 1944, after news of the D-Day invasion broke over BBC radio. (Wikimedia)

The 1959 Oscar-winning Hollywood version of the Jewish teen’s tragic story shows the Frank family and other residents of The Annex singing and dancing joyously in celebration of the D-Day landings. 

Then they huddled around a concealed radio as Roosevelt’s prayerful voice invoked “Almighty God” and delivered hope into their hidden little corner of Holland. 

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“We’ll need to be brave and endure the many fears and hardships and the suffering yet to come,” the teenager wrote that day, her entry eerily echoing the words of promise and the warnings of reality that the American president shared in his global address. 

Americans by the millions instinctively responded to the news of the D-Day invasion by flooding churches and synagogues.

Several sources called FDR’s faith-filled entreaties that day and the resulting response the largest mass prayer in human history. 

The text of it was reported the next day on the front page of almost every newspaper in America. 

The New York Times published the prayer, dutifully transcribed word for word, on its front page on June 7 under a dramatic scripted Gothic headline, “Let Our Hearts Be Stout.”

A sign is depicted saying: "Invasion Day: Come in and pray for allied victory - hourly intercessions on the hour."

A sign outside Trinity Church in New York City is shown inviting worshipers to “come in and pray for Allied victory” during the invasion of Normandy on D-Day on June 6, 1944. (FPG/Hulton Archive/Getty Images)

Americans by the millions instinctively responded to the news of the D-Day invasion by flooding their churches and synagogues.

“The impulse to pray was overwhelming,” wrote author Stephen Ambrose in his book, “D-Day, June 6, 1944: the Climactic Battle of World War II.” 

“Across the United States and Canada church bells rang … as a solemn reminder of national unity and a call to formal prayer. Special services were held in every church and synagogue in the land. Pews were jammed with worshippers,” he wrote.

Madison Square Park on D-Day in 1944

An enormous crowd gathered in Madison Square Park on D-Day in New York City on June 6, 1944. (FSA/Interim Archives/Getty Images)

Mayor Fiorello LaGuardia of New York City hosted an impromptu prayer service on D-Day before a crowd estimated as large as 50,000 people in Madison Square Park in Manhattan. 

The bells of the historic Old North Church in Boston rang that morning, while schoolchildren “recited the Lord’s Prayer in every classroom in Massachusetts,” The Boston Herald reported that day. 

“The impulse to pray was overwhelming.” — Stephen Ambrose

The Liberty Bell in Philadelphia rang for the first time in 109 years, among countless other chimes of support across the nation. 

“Philadelphia Mayor Bernard Samuel tapped the bell … sending its voice throughout the country,” wrote Ambrose. “Then he offered a prayer.”

Churches and synagogues opened around the clock to handle the flood of Americans seeking strength, comfort and unity in the pews of their houses of worship.

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Military staff at LaGuardia Field in New York gather around a radio and listen intently as President Roosevelt prays for the Allied invaders of Normandy on D-Day, June 6, 1944. LaGuardia personnel were involved in the invasion.  (Getty Images/Bettmann)

It’s notable that D-Day was a Tuesday, not a typical day of church services, and the date of the invasion was a carefully guarded secret. 

Still, Americans awoke that morning, heard the news and reflexively rallied around their faith.

“Led by President Roosevelt, the entire country joined in solemn prayer yesterday for the success of the United Nations armies of liberation,” wrote reporter Laurence Resner in a front-page story on The New York Times on June 7, 1944. 

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The newspaper’s embrace of America’s spiritual foundations wrapped around its editorial pages that day, too. 

American servicemen huddle on D-Day war ship.

U.S. servicemen attend a service aboard a landing craft before the D-Day invasion on the coast of France.​​​​​​​ (AP Photo/Pete J. Carroll)

“This nation was born in the only revolution in history made in the name of God. It was born of the conception that the rights of man … are given him by God as the inalienable birthright of the human being,” wrote The Times editorial board, led by Arthur Hays Sulzberger, great-grandfather of the outlet’s current chairman, A.G. Sulzberger, on June 7. 

The editorial appeared under the headline, “Let Us Pray.” 

D-Day prayer of FDR on June 6, 1944

Another artistic rendering of the memorial commemorating FDR’s D-Day prayer of June 6, 1944. The text of the prayer has been placed on tablets at the National World War II Memorial in Washington, D.C.  (D-Day Prayer Project)

It continued: “We pray for the boys … we pray for our country … the cause prays for itself, for it is the cause of the God who created men free and equal.”

Said Roosevelt to America, “Help us, Almighty God, to rededicate ourselves in renewed faith in Thee in this hour of great sacrifice.”

‘Need the same continuance of prayer’ 

Long of the D-Day Prayer Project said he awoke one morning more than a decade ago, turned to his wife and told her of his idea of have the president’s appeal to the faith of the American people etched for eternity at the nation’s capital.  

He said he hopes the FDR prayer memorial can help bring the nation together in faith once again. 

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As a sign of his hope, he cited the bipartisan support the bill received in 2014, allowing the project at the federal memorial to move forward. 

“I think it’s true right now that the nation is in turmoil,” said Long. 

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“This is a time when we need the same continuance of prayer that Roosevelt asked for on D-Day,” he also said. 

“Not one prayer, but a continuance of prayer.”

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